10 Financial Mistakes Women Make and How to Fix Them

I’ll be the first to admit that personal finance isn’t one of my strong suits. Budgeting and money management is simply one of those topics we avoid just because it adds so much stress to our lives. If just the thought of checking your bank account’s balance and starting to invest fills you with anxiety, you’re not alone. According to a recent survey, 30% of Americans are “constantly” stressed out about money. We get it.

The bad news is keeping financial matters to yourself can cause more money problems, including more stress and heartbreak. We’ve all made mistakes with taking on one too many student loans, one too many credit cards, and not enough time learning about how they work and how to pay them off. The good news is there’s always time to improve your finances and the best time is now. We just have to identify the common money mistakes you’re making and change them, stat. With 2019 right around the corner, I’m sure you’re already thinking about what your New Year resolution should be.

Well, why not make it the year that you dominate your finances?  The best time to start a goal is right nowso let this be your catalyst to tackle the financial stress once and for all.

Ready to take control of your money? Here are ten financial mistakes you can fix today.

Money Mistake #1: Not having an emergency fund
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You need to make sure you have enough money saved in case of an emergency, the old emergency fund. It’s three to six months of take-home pay, held in a savings account so you’ve got it when you need it.

Start small and with what you have by collecting extra cash or change and putting them into a designated piggy bank. Make a list of all your expenses and track them better, so you can see exactly where your finances are going.

For your Emergency Fund goal, we calculate three months of take-home pay (salary minus taxes, including Social Security and Medicare taxes). Not sure where to keep your emergency fund? Ellevest is a company that believes their clients can’t afford any investment risk with their emergency money, so they place all assets in the Emergency Fund goal in FDIC Cash. This means that these assets are insured by the Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation, which the U.S. government describes as “an independent agency of the United States government that protects you against the loss of your insured deposits if an FDIC-insured bank or savings association fails. FDIC insurance is backed by the full faith and credit of the United States government.”

The interest rate on the funds in this goal is 0.01% (or 1 basis point). It’s a very low interest, but Ellevest believes that a safety net shouldn’t be subject to market downturns, so they don’t charge a management fee for assets in the Emergency Fund goal. Yup… Free. Interested? No commitments, no penalty for canceling. Get started here.

Money Mistake #2: Letting your partner manage the money without your involvement

Very 1964… and not in a cool way. Few of us think we’ll break up or get divorced (or that tragedy will strike), it happens. You don’t want to be learning about your financial situation while you’re in shock.

Start asking questions. Have the conversation. Don’t let politeness get in the way of understanding your finances. Research shows that both men and women are shy of asking for explanations of financial terms; even so, men still invest while women more typically won’t. (I agree: it’s hard to know which is the worse outcome. So please just talk about it and ask questions. Get involved.

Money Mistake #3: Not having a budget

A lot of us aren’t sure where to start when it comes to roping in our budget and being more strict about our spending. So, how do you know what to spend on what? Some people love planning every penny. For the rest of us, all you really need for a healthy relationship with your money is a solid, high-level framework for where it should all be going. And that’s where the 50/30/20 rule for your money comes in.

Here’s how and why to 50/30/20 your money.

Money Mistake #4:  Not taking into account your greater longevity in your investing plan.
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If you’re married, you’re likely to live 5+ years longer than he does. Does your financial plan take this into account, and your years without him? Even if both of you are “moderate risk” kind of investors, that means different things if you’re living longer. And newsflash: women live than men, on average, 6-8 years longer on average so we legitimately need more retirement savings than men. (Right now, we actually retire with two-thirds as much.) Cue the deep sign.

With retirement potentially only a decade or two away, now’s the time to get real on what you want yours to look like. Start by dreaming up your ideal lifestyle — get really specific. Want to move to a ranch? Which one? What does the real estate market look like in that town? What’s the cost of living? How will you fill your days? What do those things cost?

No matter your circumstances, one piece of advice that holds true for everyone: You need to start thinking seriously about saving for retirement as soon as possible—and having actual numbers to aim for can make doing so a whole lot easier.

If you have questions, our friends at Ellevest can also help you understand how much you might need.

Money Mistake #5: Not rolling over that old 401k
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So… that 401(k) from your old employer is still your money. What are you going to do with it?

You could leave it where it is, but you won’t be able to contribute any more to it after you’ve left. If you change jobs a lot, that’s a lot of old accounts to keep track of. And while many employers pay at least part of your 401(k) plan’s administration fees, there’s no guarantee they’ll keep doing that if you leave.

You could cash it out, but wait —  this option comes with massive tax penalties. Like potentially massive. If you’ve decided that neither of those options is right for you, that leaves a 401(k) rollover.

What’s a 401(k) rollover, you ask? Rolling over a 401(k) means transferring the money to another tax-advantaged retirement account. This could include many different types, but the two most common examples are your new employer’s 401(k) (if their plan allows it) or an individual retirement account (IRA).

Money Mistake #6: Waiting until a less risky time to invest
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Because we overestimate investment risk, many of us don’t take on enough risk in saving for retirement. Here’s why it’s a problem (for us, women, specifically): we live longer than the guys, by 5+ years. Should we take on more or less investment risk than they do, in order to fund our longer-than-their retirements?

Answer: Generally, more.

That’s so that we have the opportunity to earn higher returns, over time, that we’ll need to last us over those longer lifespans.  And the good news is that our greater longevity itself enables us to take on more risk, so that we may have time to ride out the downdrafts that inevitably occur over longer investment horizons.

“The market feels iffy” Or “I feel like I need to get through that stack of reading on the markets.” There are many, many reasons to wait to invest. But timing the markets is almost impossible, even for people who do it full-time. Investing steadily over time helps to smooth out the market ups and downs…and is historically a vastly better alternative than keeping your money in cash.

Money Mistake #7: We think we have to “know everything” before we invest.

I don’t know about you, but I loved turning over the test at school and seeing that A. And we women can carry that through our lives…wanting to be knowledgeable enough “to get the A.” As a result, so many women I speak to have a big stack of “investing reading,”that they really are planning to do, sitting on their bedside table.

And while we can all stand to know more about compound interest, or what standard deviations are, or what beta is — we will never know everything. I would never argue against more financial education, but waiting til we “know everything” is very expensive. I’ve seen it deprive women of years of investment opportunity. (See #10 for exactly how expensive this can be.)

Interested in learning more? You can get a personalized portfolio from Ellevest (for free) in under 10 min. And it’s made by women, for women, with portfolios that allow you to invest in companies that support women.

I don’t know about you, but I loved turning over the test at school and seeing that A. And we women can carry that through our lives…wanting to be knowledgeable enough “to get the A.” As a result, so many women I speak to have a big stack of “investing reading,”that they really are planning to do, sitting on their bedside table.

And while we can all stand to know more about compound interest, or what standard deviations are, or what beta is — we will never know everything. I would never argue against more financial education, but waiting til we “know everything” is very expensive. I’ve seen it deprive women of years of investment opportunity. (See #10 for exactly how expensive this can be.)

Interested in learning more? You can get a personalized portfolio from Ellevest (for free) in under 10 min. And it’s made by women, for women, with portfolios that allow you to invest in companies that support women.

Money Mistake #8: We forget our most important asset: ourselves.

Money Mistake #8: We forget our most important asset: ourselves.

It’s not your stocks; it’s not your bonds; it’s you. And this means that every action you take can have a significant impact on your financial profile. Think about it: One great way to have more money for retirement is to earn more money. If you are like the typical woman in the U.S., you are making 78 cents to a man’s dollar (even less for women of color). Get to that dollar and you’ve just earned a 28% return on what may well be your biggest asset: your salary.

And to put this in context, according to our sources at Ellevest, if you’re earning $85,000 a year and you get that raise, that can mean you earn another $1.1 million over the next 40 years.

Now turn around and invest that puppy (no upgrading your home, no buying that Range Rover) and you may have another $1.2 to $2.3 million – or more – at the end of 40 years.

I hate asking for a raise, too, but this is A LOT of potential return on one-meeting you need to have this year. Do it. Here are a few things every woman should know before going in.

Money Mistake #8: Setting resolutions and goals but not investing for them
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A goal that you’re not actively planning for is just a dream. You may have seen the research that writing the goal down can substantially increase your chances of achieving it; writing it down, setting aside money for it, regularly adding money to it and investing toward it? Well, there’s likely no stopping you.

Some rules of thumb: at Ellevest, they recommend that you have 2 years of salary (net of taxes) set aside before you launch your new business. Having this money give you the runway you need to make it work. And for retirement, your goal should be to get to 10 to 15 years of your pre-retirement salary.

See what goes into your goals with Ellevest here.

Money Mistake #10: The biggie: We (significantly) underestimate the costs of waiting to invest
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Ask yourself this: Are you doing the most with your money? Is it working FOR you? If you have to think about it a minute. You’re not investing. We, women, have a tendency to underestimate the costs of waiting to invest.

We wait. We wait til we know more about invest. We wait for the right time to invest. We wait til the market is quieter, we wait til we get the raise, we wait til we get that raise — because we’re busy. We wait til we can talk to our partner about it. We wait because it can be such a weird topic. We wait because the last time we talked about it, we got in a fight.

So we wait.

And it costs us. So much. Quick calculation: again, say you’re making $85,000 a year, saving 20% of your salary, and putting it in the bank instead of investing it. Wait five years to invest and that just cost you more than $170,000 when it’s time to retire. Wait ten years, and you’re down more than $337,000.

And, in case you’re wondering, that cost of waiting is almost $100 a day. Every day.

I know it’s a hassle to start and it’s kind of stress-inducing. That’s why the entire raison d’etre at Ellevest is to help you get invested so that you can close your personal investing gap. Believe us, nights, weekend, too many cups of coffee…they’re fundamentally rethinking investing for women, and they’re inviting you in. Investing. Don’t ignore.

Pay yourself first: Your new resolution for 2019. Make sure a cut of every paycheck goes straight to your retirement or savings account and does not pass go.

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